Heal Before You Deal by Pastor Kingsley Okonkwo is a heartfelt and truth-laden sermon that urges believers—especially singles—to pursue emotional and spiritual healing before entering into romantic relationships. In his signature mix of candor, humor, and deep biblical insight, Pastor Kingsley emphasizes that unresolved hurts, past trauma, and emotional baggage can sabotage even the most promising relationships if not addressed.
In Heal Before You Deal by Pastor Kingsley Okonkwo, he draws attention to the fact that many people try to “deal”—that is, build or sustain a relationship—while still bleeding internally. He teaches that healing is not just necessary; it is a divine process that positions you for love that lasts. This message is a call to wholeness, reminding listeners that God wants them healed before He sends a spouse, not while they’re still hurting.
Pastor Kingsley Okonkwo is a renowned relationship coach, lead pastor of David’s Christian Centre, and one of Nigeria’s most trusted voices on Christian marriage and dating. His teachings have transformed lives across Africa and the diaspora, helping young people and couples build godly and fulfilling relationships.
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